Doesn't Get Much Clearer Than This

If you're unhappy with something in your life, make a change or put up with it.

Negative friend? Cut them.

Don't like what the look of your reflection when you get out of the shower naked? Eat less, move more.

Bad roommate? Move out.

Ugly haircut? Go to a new hairdresser.

Don't like the song? Skip it.

Tired of feeling hungover every Sunday morning? Give up the drink.

It's very simple and clear.

You do or you don't do.

There is no "trying".

"Trying" to do something, is not doing it.

Doing something is doing it.