Why I'm A Fan Of Getting A Better Body To Get Laid

Picture this...

You're scared of heights.

A) If I told you to do a skydive for free, would you do it?

OR

B) If I told you to do a skydive for free and we would film it so we can show your friends and post it on social media, would you do it?

OR

C) If I told you to skydive for $100,000, would you do it?

If you answered yes to A, you're doing it to conquer your fears.

If you answered yes to B, you're doing it to show others you are conquering your fears or to keep the memory for yourself.

If you answered yes to C, you're doing it for the money or you're smart and said, "Well, if I'm going to skydive, I may as well get paid for it."

Whatever answer you decided, you know what I'm trying to say here.

The same goal is being achieved by skydiving but different motives are behind the reason you may do it.

Some people in life want to look better so they're healthy and confident.

Others want to look better to get laid.

The same goal is being achieved but the only difference are the two completely different motives behind each one.

Whatever motive you have behind achieving your goals, just make sure you're being honest to yourself and to others who care enough to ask.

If you say it's to be healthy but you want to get laid.

You probably won't achieve either.

Knowing what you want and why you want it gives you a straight path to what you want, when knowing what you want and not knowing why, leads you astray.

"The reason you don't have what you want is because you don't want what you're trying to have."
B, Ashby 2020